Top 10 Reasons Black Women Are Disgusted with the Way the Black Man is Handling Himself (@iBLONDEgenius)
White girl + black man is definitely the elephant in the room Ice (and Erica too…) – but let’s take it a step further. Things have changed – drastically, and let’s just say, us black women don’t like the way black men are currently handling themselves. Check out the top 10 reasons black women are disgusted with the new age black man.
10. Oh, you’re 6’5? – doesn’t mean your going to the NBA. Wow, you made those words rhyme all by yourself? – doesn’t make you the next Hov. No one aspires to become a doctor anymore? Lawyer? Teacher? Writer? Cop? No? Oh. Stop looking for a women to support your unrealistic goals bro.
9. Black men seem to have the lamest dating strategies. Not saying you have to take me to the most expensive place, but no, coming over your house to chill and eat takeout isn’t on my list of fun first dates. I’m over the movies too. I can’t learn anything about you while sitting silent in a theatre for 2 hours. Take me to the museum or aquarium, bring a blanket and some fruit to the park. It’s not that hard to have a nice, cheap, out-the-ordinary date. Get creative.
8. Black men show no respect to black women. Would you call your mother the things you call us if we turn you down in the street? Treat us how you would want a man to treat your daughter and it’ll all work out.
7. Black guys love screaming loyalty but are usually the most unloyal ones. A black woman will stick by you through it all…cheating, lying, broke, unhappy, and she’s there to tell you everything will be better. What do you do? Turn around and leave her. Now she’s heartbroken and called bitter/angry. Learn to communicate better and more relationships will last.
6. Unmotivated. Irresponsible. Lazy….but talented. Are you proud of that? Man up and take care of business. Stop sitting around playing 2K all day. Stop waiting on line for 3 days for some sneakers. Black women see your potential and get mad when it goes to waste. Stop it. Grow up. Black men aren’t going to school. How many black men do you know with a masters? And of course school isn’t everything or for everybody. But start your own business. Stop being content with a job that has no growth. Think about your future.
5. The “M” word seems to scare black men these days, more than the “N” word back in the 50s. You know how many times I’ve heard a man say he doesn’t believe in marriage? Maybe if you didn’t believe in divorce, you would look at life differently. Black love is a beautiful thing.
4. “Got a main chick & got a mistress, a couple girlfriends – I’m so hood rich.” Black men flaunt the fact that they can get multiple women. No one wants to deal with a chronic cheater! (CC: Stevie J & his blatant disrespect to MiMi). Most black men are raised in a single parent home, where their mother subsequently treats her son like her man. Mothers baby their boys, unknowingly raising them to always be dependent on a woman. Mommy cooks, cleans, and lets you live off her – so you in turn expect the same thing from your woman. Most men wouldn’t know how to take care of home without a woman. Ever been to a single guys place? Yeah…nasty. Instead of having tons of women, just find one and work on keeping her happy. Trust me.
3. What’s with the need to impress others? Stop living beyond your means. Stop scamming and stealing other people’s hard earned money to buy stupid material things. Why do you drive a 2012 BMW but live in mommy’s basement? Why will you pay $600 for some sneakers, but won’t pay $200 on a date? (lol, yes I went there). Key point tho…just be yourself. The richest man in the room is usually not the flashy one.
2. Riddle me this? Why have unprotected sex with a woman you wouldn’t want to bear your children. (Baby Daddy Syndrome) How many times have we heard a man preach he only deals with 10s – then you see his baby mother and she’s Queen gremlin in the face? He ends up not taking care of the child because he’s ashamed of his baby mother. Another black family doomed before it begins. Stop doing it to yourselves. Have some self-control. Aim to be a father, not a sperm donor.
1. Stop flaunting money and get mad when you attract gold diggers..If you take pics with stacks of money, pop 10 bottles in the club, buying Balenciagas and Hermes belts, why get mad if ya chick wants you to buy her a bag? It’s simple math. You are what you attract. Fill a room with gold diggers and you’ll see only a handful of black women. A white girl will train herself to love you & your money. Black women can’t fake it…we need chemistry. How many black girls you know, stuck by her broke ass man because she loved him? Stop trying to throw black women under the bus saying we are only in it for the money – before your beloved Becky ends up taking you for everything you got.
Moral of the story. Black men we haven’t given up on you. You will always be our Kings. But get it the F*CK together. ASAP.
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Speak for yourself. A black man has never been my King nor am I caring about them getting it together or not. I am attracted to quality not color. Being black does nothing for me. I don’t sit around worrying about black men getting it together or needing my support. I didn’t birth you. Your well being is not my concern. When I meet you, you should already be a fully functional adult. If you are not, you need to go holla at one of those black love proponents because that woman does not live within me.
you black males are a damn joke!
talk so much shtt about white men, but your black asses can’t even clean your own backyard! at this moment, black women are washing their hands and feet of you, because you’ve reduced them down to nothing, so tell me why the hell should they stick around for you? it’s best to jump from a sinking ship and now most of them are wisening up and getting on for themselves WITHOUT BLACK MEN!
and we don’t give a damn who black men date, marry, fuck, etc. stop talkin so much shtt about black women.
and trust, them non-black women can have the lot of you bitter black fukks!
THAT’S WHY I DON’T WANT NO F’CKIN DAUGHTERS AND MIXED OBAMA LOOKING LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE ONLY STRONG TALENTED REAL DARK SKIN BLACK SONS LOOK LIKE AKON OR TYRESE TO KEEP MY RACE AND OUR CULTURE STILL ALIVE IN THIS RACIST WHITE MAN’S WORLD AND GOD WILL HELP ME WITH THIS! ALL YOU FAKE ASS DIRTY DUMB SELF-HATING SELLOUT WHITE MAN’S N!GGER WH0RES WILL BE SINGLE THE REST OF YOUR DAMN LIFE BECAUSE KARMA IS B’TCH AND ALL THIS SH’T ALWAYS COME BACK TO YOU NO MATTER WHAT!
stop trust, working or f’ck with white devils. stop make mixed/white looking kids for white race and kill each other. teach your daughters don’t date/sleep with white and non black men or marry outside of black race. stop make only daughters who will be just a dirty strippers or white man’s p0rn0 wh0res. make more real dark/brown skin black sons/kids and teach them to be pro-black and respect themselves and black history. only then a lot of us will be happy, on the top and at peace!
….and pls stop make only daughters for white men who will be just strippers, white man’s p0rn0 wh0res or babymamas for white race. make more real dark/brown skin black sons for black race only when real black ppl and african/black culture still alive in this world! f’ck racist whites and their dumb wh0res!
WHEN YOU STUPID DUMB N!GGAS LEARN THAT YOU CAN NOT MARRY OR TRUST TO ALL THESE DUMB SELF-HATING WHITE D’CK LOVING FAKE AZZ WHITE MAN’S BLACK OR MIXED N!GGER WH0RES/H0ES. MOST OF BLACK WOMEN HATES AND JEALOUS OF REAL DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK MEN, THEY DISRESPECT US AND DO EVERYTHING WHAT RACIST SMART WHITE MEN TELL THEM TO DO THAT’S WHY WE HATE AND KILL EACH OTHER.
THIS IS THE BIG REASON WHY YOUR BLACK MEN/SONS DIES, GAY AND IN PRISON PLS WAKE THE F’CK UP AND MAKES MORE REAL STRONG TALENTED DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK SONS THAN DAUGHTERS BECAUSE BIRACIAL KIDS WITH RACIST WHITE OR MIXED LATINO B’TCHES WILL ALWAYS GO TO WHITE RACE. OBAMA IS NOT BLACK HE IS PROJECT BY RACIST SMART JEWS/WHITE MAN TO DESTROY OUR DARK SKIN BLACK RACE, CULTURE, SONS/KIDS AND COMMUNITY! PLS MY BLACK BROTHERS WAKE THE F’CK UP!
is it all black woman’s fault. you as mother of your black race, your black sons and daughters don’t raised them well and pro-black as supposed to be. what did you black women do today for your black men and black community?! you’re f’cks with ugly pale racist white men and give births white looking kids for white race and you’re wondering why your black men are f’ckind up?! black women today do worst sh’t than all these dumb n!ggas doing!
is not all black men’s fault don’t forget that black women have them own sh’t too they play games just like n!ggas. for example: we hate white men but black women love white men that’s why we have soo many problems!