WHY IS IT THAT WE AS PEOPLE ARE NEVER SATISFIED WITH WHAT WE HAVE? NOW I’M NOT SUGGESTING WE SETTLE FOR LESS IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM….BUT JUST BE SATISFIED WITH HAVING ENOUGH. NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN THE PERSON YOU FIND YOURSELF DEALING WITH, IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH, OR MARRYING HAS DAMN NEAR EVERYTHING YOU ASK FOR IN A PARTNER SO WHY BOTHER IN LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO JUST HAS THOSE FEW QUALITIES THAT YOUR PARTNER IS MISSING. THAT BRINGS ME TO THE 80/20 RULE; WHICH HAS BEEN MADE POPULAR BY THE MOVIE “WHY DID I GET MARRIED?”THIS RULE IS SUGGESTING THAT AT MOST IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU GET 80% OF WHAT YOU NEED AND THAT SOMEONE WILL ULTIMATELY COME ALONG WITH THE 20% YOU FEEL IS MISSING. MOST LIKELY WE ARE SUBJECT TO FALL FOR THAT 20% BECAUSE WE ARE TOO GREEDY TO REALIZE THAT THE 80% IS WHAT WE ONLY NEED. NOW IT ONLY TAKES COMMONSENSE TO REALIZE THAT EIGHTY IS A BIGGER NUMBER THAN TWENTY. SO WHY DO WE RISK LOSING THAT EIGHTY? MAYBE WE ARE JUST CURIOUS TO HOW IT FEELS TO HAVE THAT TWENTY, MAYBE WE ARE TOO INTO OUR WANTS AND COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THE OUTCOME OF RISKING OUR EIGHTY. IF WE ALL HAD OUR WAY WE WOULD TAKE THIS PERSON AND THAT PERSON AND MAKE THEM ONE BUT, WE CAN’T ALWAYS HAVE OUR WAY CAN WE. SO WITH THAT BEING SAID THE OLD SAYING WE ALL KNOW GOES…THE GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. SO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR EIGHTY BECAUSE THERE ARE PEOPLE WALKING AROUND WITH JUST TWENTY AND WILL SNATCH UP YOUR EIGHTY WHILE YOU’RE WASTING YOUR TIME WITH THEIR TWENTY.