Who?!?! – #AmberCole

Above is a twitpic Amber Cole posted of her report card at 3am October 17th, 2011

By: Spit  ( @iamnotarapper58 )

Amber Cole (@DaRealAmberCole), per her twitter account has “Created a twitter to clear my name…” & that she is also “NOT A HOE! I AM JUST YOUR AVERAGE GIRL……. 14..female…goals…..” …goals which include:

It’s still unclear if she created the twitter or if her mother did,

But regardless, why is everybody at 2am (EST) talking about a 14-year-old girl who isn’t a hoe? And what is she clearing her name from? Why are random celebrities telling this little girl not to kill herself?

(Including @NickiiMinaj which is fake @NickiMinaj page but the irony in that is that Nicki Minaj is probably the reason she was doing it in the first place… But doing what?)

Well, Amber Cole may be the average 14-year-old girl, but this average 14-year-old girl was recorded on a razor phone giving oral sex to a 14-year-old male outside of a school in broad daylight. Judging by what I have seen & heard in my travels, when children speak at times that they think no one is listening, Amber Cole could very well turn out to be the average 14-year-old. This fact is very very sad & especially disheartening to me as a parent & anyone who knows the focus of this generations school age children. Sex is on their mind more than school is and that is because all forms of entertainment they indulge in are loaded with sexual innuendo & partial sexual education which doesn’t include repercussions or safety. This isn’t specific to 14 year olds at all, this starts from Spongebob Squarepants all the way up to Degrassi & continues full steam ahead into adulthood.

The video in question does not show her face nor is her name mentioned, which brings us to our next question: How does everyone know it was her?

Well, the reason why everyone knows its Amber Cole in the video is because Amber Cole told everyone it was her. While #TroyDavis , who was executed (read as: murdered) for a crime he may or may not have committed (See: Too Much Doubt To Execute) never became & has blocked by @Twitter from becoming a trending topic, #AmberCole was trending almost immediately which is indicative of the state of the world we live in today & it sends a message loud & clear: The most popular forms of entertainment that exist today are selling teen sex, or selling sex to teens. Just imagine how much money twitter is making right now from peddling kiddie porn? Due to the fact that I do not support kiddie porn I have NOT embedded the video into this post, however if you choose to watch a 14-year-old girl give fellatio to another CHILD her age, who am I to judge you right? Here you are

Now for those of you who didn’t just google her name to watch mini porn, haven’t clicked the link & are still here, lets discuss the root of this problem. How do 14 year olds know what oral sex is & how to perform it secretly? Why are other 14 year olds taping it? Other “celebrities” have chimed in with their opinions but these two which contrast are the two that I find most interesting

Above you see Tyler’s message & below you see Amber Cole’s response (her twitter background is Chris Brown when he was her age). Tyler, The Creator (of Odd Future fame)  decided to take the route that most of the internet has taken thus far which is to make light of a serious situation. The internet is usually the place where this sort of thing takes place because people can hide behind 140 characters (or more on the Facebook) & leave it at the that. The names aren’t real, the situations aren’t real & the people aren’t real… But this is real. Amber Cole is a real person. Lets put this in perspective… as a matter of fact, I’ll let Wale put this in perspective

Wale’s quote makes perfect sense to any adult with a working brain. Amber Cole is a misguided child & the underlying message is #WeGottaDoBetter . Not just a cliché trending topic so you can seem socially conscious on the internet but actually do something. Talk to children about sex & the repercussions that can result from not exercising your sexual power responsibly. Starting these sort of talks and education at this age will prevent or at least curve the number of sexually uneducated adults who started out practicing these of acts while in school. Amber Cole did not invent the wheel nor will she be the last one to roll it. There are millions of Amber Coles out there and it could be your sister, daughter, cousin, niece, neighbor, classmate, roommate or someone you hold dear going through this. Would it be funny then? Would you have 140 characters of jokes then?

Its very easy to attack the fruit & not the root of these sort of problems but you must ALWAYS attack the root before the fruit is even addressed. How did this happen? Why is this happening? How could we have prevented this? How can we prevent this in the future? Don’t complain about flash mobs if you aren’t in support of funding after school programs, don’t complain about drugs taking over your neighborhood if you “support your local drug dealer”, don’t complain about there not being any stores owned by your race of people if all you do is support businesses by those outside of your race,  & don’t complain about a 14-year-old girl giving oral sex outside of a school in broad daylight during school hours while nobody was around if you arent in support of more funding for schools & if you’re going to make fun of her cry for help by making serious jokes to her face.

If Amber Cole does kill herself, will you be partially to blame?

-Spit  ( @iamnotarapper58 )

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